Malignant narcissists are the most toxic people that you’ll ever encounter.
You’ll find that going no-contact with these people is the only way to maintain your sanity if one of these mind-predators ever enters into your life.
And don’t be fooled by any malignant narcissist who claims to be a “Christian” either.
Because real Christians have the Spirit of God in them, and thus they grieve over their sins against people, (they don’t get gratification from playing mind games with others).
Narcissists are deceivers at their very core, chameleons, which means that they’re liars.
And this is what God says in Revelation 21.8 about all liars:
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.”
I’ve personally witnessed such a chameleon in the spectrum of professing Christianity.
There’s one malignant narcissist that I’ve encountered off & on over the years online. he’s someone who claims to be a Christian, knows all of the Christian doctrine, makes YouTube videos and blogs heavily about Christian topics.
But he’s void of any remorse in how he gratuitously insults people.
This is someone who (in classic malignant narcissistic-form), flips the narrative and plays the victim in the very strife that he creates.
So consider James 3.13-18 please:
“Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.
14 But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth.
15 This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish.
16 For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.
17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
18 And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.“
Therefore dear Christian,
pray for the narcissist’s salvation,
but use discernment in not giving such predators, jackals, access into your mind; guard the peace that God has given you.
All glory to the risen Lord Jesus Christ, and no glory to us whatsoever.
Here’s a playlist of videos that have helped me to understand the thinking of malignant narcissists: